Partner Strengths Discovery
Recognize and Celebrate What Makes Your Partner Exceptional
Partner Strengths Discovery
Recognize and Celebrate What Makes Your Partner Exceptional
Partner Strengths Discovery
Recognize and Celebrate What Makes Your Partner Exceptional
Over time, the qualities that first attracted you to your partner can fade into the background of everyday life. Research on positive psychology in relationships (Kashdan et al., 2021) shows that actively identifying and affirming a partner's character strengths increases relationship satisfaction for both individuals. This exercise invites you to deliberately reconnect with the qualities you value most in your partner and to recall specific moments when those strengths were on display.
From the list below, select five strengths that best describe your partner. Then, for each of the first three strengths, describe a specific memory or recent example of your partner demonstrating that quality. Be as detailed as possible, noting what happened, how it made you feel, and why it stood out.
| Partner Strength | Memory or Example |
|---|---|
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What is the Partner Strengths Discovery worksheet?
Over time, the qualities that first attracted you to your partner can fade into the background of everyday life. , 2021) shows that actively identifying and affirming a partner's character strengths increases relationship satisfaction for both individuals.
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Fill out this worksheet digitally or print it for use in session. You can save your progress with a Pro account. Take your time with each column — there are no right or wrong answers.
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